Terms
Private beta · Last updated November 12, 2026
18 and older only. Dakota is for adults. You confirm you are 18 or older when you sign up. If we learn a member is under 18, we close the account.
Dakota is an AI. She is a matchmaker built on artificial intelligence, not a person. She can make mistakes, and a match is a suggestion, not a promise or a guarantee of how someone will behave.
How it works. You text Dakota over iMessage and she gets to know you over a few days, including a few photos of you. Matches are set to start on December 1 (Miami time); until then she is just getting to know you. When she finds someone who might fit, she pitches a blind match: each of you hears only a compatibility score and the topics you see alike. Your first name is shared with a match only after both of you say yes and pick a time, and a no is never revealed. She then sets up a date at a public place in Miami and introduces you by text. Your number is shown to your date only after you agree.
Daily check-ins. Dakota may text you once a day in the evening, Miami time. Tell her “stop texting me daily” to turn that off.
Invites. Dakota is invite-only. Each member gets 3 invite links to share; each works once, when a beta spot is open.
Meet safely. Please keep dates in public, tell a friend where you’re going, and trust your instincts. You are responsible for your own decisions about whether and how to meet someone.
Be decent. Use your own number and be honest about yourself. Don’t harass, threaten or deceive anyone, or use Dakota to break the law. You can ask Dakota to block or report anyone you’ve been matched with, and we may remove anyone who puts others at risk.
You’re in control. Text Dakota “pause” to stop new matches and daily check-ins. Text “delete me” to close your account: your profile and your conversation with Dakota are deleted and your number is no longer connected to Dakota. Anything already sent to a date, like your first name or number, stays with them. The Privacy page says exactly what is deleted and what is kept.
Beta. The service is an invite-only beta and may change, be unavailable, or stop at any time.
Contact. Questions or requests: axkgoods@gmail.com.